CHOOSE A RIGHT PRACTITIONER
Unfortunatelly his area of massage is generally not very well regulated. When you order a tantra massage, you never know what you will get.
Here are five general tips to help you find the right therapist:
Ask what training your practitioner has completed. Sometimes people will offer a “tantric massage” based on their own self-assessment. This is not a qualification to provide tantric massage.
Learn more about energy. You can ask the therapist what the goal is with the sexual energy during the massage. If they say “to be pleasured until release”, then it is an erotic massage. If they say something like “help you relax around sexual energy and let it flow throughout your body” or “make you feel relaxed and natural throughout your body”, then it’s more of a tantric massage.
Ask the therapist if they have their own tantric practice. They can practice yoga, qi-gong or meditation. Any of these practices will increase their ability to provide true tantric transmission. If a practitioner does not do their own practice, then they are less likely to be skilled in energetic awareness.
Check what the therapist’s boundaries are. Look for a therapist with clear and professional boundaries. Trust is necessary for surrender to occur. Remember, if you are a sexually traumatized woman, you can book a tantric massage with a female practitioner, which often creates a safer space to sit.
If you want to get a tantric massage but can’t find a therapist you want to work with, another option is to go to a tantra massage workshop with someone close to you. Workshops are intended for participants to learn how to give and receive tantra massage.
Have you ever had a tantric massage? what did you experienced? Have you had a session that changed your life and if so why was it so good? Or maybe you had an experience you’d rather not repeat. Is there anything you could share with others that might guide them and help them find the healing, the knowledge they might be seeking? I welcome your real experiences and comments.
